Friday, June 3, 2011
End of a season
Take care-
Monday, February 7, 2011
TEMPTATION
Sunday, January 23, 2011
FANS
Saturday, January 22, 2011
FREEDOM
Monday, December 20, 2010
YOKED
- Adam & Eve (Genesis 3:12 - “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit…”)
- Abraham & Sarah (Genesis 12:11-13 - “I know what a beautiful woman you are. When the Egyptians see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife.’ Then they will kill me but will let you live. Say you are my sister, so that I will be treated well…”)
- Then Abraham’s son Isaac & Rebekah (Genesis 26:6,7 - “So Isaac stayed in Gerar. When the men of that place asked him about his wife, he said, “She is my sister,” because he was afraid to say, “She is my wife.” He thought, “The men of this place might kill me on account of Rebekah, because she is beautiful.”)
Thursday, December 16, 2010
SETBACK
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
RELATIONAL
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
SURVIVAL
- Have phone numbers: many times they just need to talk about the pressure
- Make an exit plan: know when you are going to leave before you go
- Have your own transportation: this way they are free to leave when ready
- Watch the crowd: if the party becomes uncomfortable, leave
- Don’t plan to resolve a life’s worth of ‘family stuff’ over turkey: this NEVER works
- Discuss your plan with your partner BEFORE you go: saves on having to argue your case in the middle of things
- Don’t let anyone, no matter how well-meaning talk you out of your plan
Monday, December 6, 2010
INVISIBLE
Sunday, December 5, 2010
GENEROSITY
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
SMARTER
Sunday, November 28, 2010
REST IN PEACE
Friday, November 26, 2010
SERVICE
Thursday, November 25, 2010
PERSPECTIVE

Yesterday was a life-changing day. As I was packing up my laptop and heading to pick up the last of my holiday meal fixin’s my text notification rang on my phone. “It is a matter of time now” was what I heard from my dear friend who, along with her extended family have been sitting bedside while her stepfather was succumbing to his cancer battle. While the family knew of the diagnosis and what the end result would be, it is always “too soon” to say goodbye.
On the way home the next call my husband, Jim. He had been laid off from his job of 7 years. This was not breaking news as the company had been facing financial issues and had already laid off (‘furlough’ is the new buzz word for this) the majority of the staff.
Now that I am less numb, I guess that I am facing the reality that everything here is temporary. This is not new information, just something that I occasionally “choose not to look at” from my comfortable spot. Yet the Word that is hidden in my heart says: “So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.” (2 Corinthians 4:18 - NLT) It sounds like an instruction to be very intentional about our focus. Now I read for the context of the verse and this is what precedes it: “For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever! “
OK, so if I believe God’s Word is true and without error, the question remains, “What am I going to do with this.” I’ll keep you posted.
Take care-
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Back at it...
Thursday, January 1, 2009
BHAGG
au⋅da⋅cious /ɔˈdeɪ| 1. | extremely bold or daring; recklessly brave; fearless: an audacious explorer. |
| 2. | extremely original; without restriction to prior ideas; highly inventive: an audacious vision of the city's bright future. |
| 3. | recklessly bold in defiance of convention, propriety, law, or the like; insolent; brazen. |
| 4. | lively; unrestrained; uninhibited: an audacious interpretation of her role. |
Jim and I once had a pastor encourage us to set a "BHAGG" based on what God was speaking into our hearts. He later defined BHAGG as a Big Hairy Audacious God-Sized Goal and then further encouraged us to BELIEVE GOD for the fulfillment of His promise. This was great inspiration for us as we had already seen God do BIG things in our lives. Jim and I both have been set free from addictions that threatened to destroy us, so we both have come to know God's nature when it comes to causing the miraculous.
A couple of weeks ago I lead our staff devotions (the Pastoral Staff has a rotation where one of us present a devo. to the whole KFA staff one morning every week) and I asked the staff to get with God and ask Him about His goals for their lives for 2009. I then instructed them to commit to one of the goals and to share it with someone who would hold them accountable to doing their part to fulfill the goal. Since that morning some have shared that they know just where God is directing them while others are still listening for that 'still, small voice' to reveal the plan.
For me, the biggest challenge is not putting a lid on the plans. I KNOW how much I can do. I know what my capabilities are. My hope is that I can give God's plans right back to God because, as I have said before "God is FULLY responsible for the life that is TOTALLY SURRENDERED to Him."
With that in mind, what is God birthing into your life for 2009? Is it to lay things down or pick things up? Is it to finally surrender yourself to His good, perfect and pleasing will? Has He revealed a dream to you in days gone by that you have doubted because it seemed like an impossible feat? I think that everyone is closer to knowing what "IT" is that they will let themselves admit. I dare you to go for it!
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Word
This morning I sent an email to about 100 people from KFA encouraging them to add The Daily Bible to their Christmas 'wish list' in preparation to begin reading it January 1st. Many have responded with great excitement as they look forward to being in the Word daily with a structured study. Many have tried other study guides but this unique Bible Devotional is arranged in chronological order. One example of this is that psalms are inserted into the exact place in the story where the author would have written them. The Gospels are also harmonized so that all accounts are read at the same time. The commentary/narration, written by F. LaGard Smith ties the reading of each day into a seamless epic that spans events from creation to the apolocalypse.
It was twelve years ago that my mentor suggested that I purchase a copy of this Bible and establish a pattern of studying it daily. This habit has been life changing for me and since God's Word does not return void I expect that the same will happen for all who study it.
So, if you are reading this and did not get my email from this morning, please also consider joining us in reading The Daily Bible in 2009. You might also share this with others in your circle of influence.
Take care-
Friday, October 31, 2008
BUSY

As I reflect on the past 5 weeks, since I last blogged I think of the list of activities, meetings and appointments I have experienced. I find it hard to believe that I have not downloaded any of them in writing! So, I will touch on a few to bring you up to speed:
Meeting with Jeanette Stevenson, a certified Life Coach that I have know since my MWA Counseling days where she rented an office from MWA. Jeanette is looking for ways to connect with KFA.
Vision casting with Joan Stanich as we begin to plan what 2009 will look like for The New View and then Joan and I shared that vision with The Pulse Team to have so much enthusiasm build. I LOVE casting vision!
I have been blessed to work with (mentor) 4 women over the past 2 years that have really begun to experience the fullness of total surrender to the Lord. One of which just emailed me from her new home (in another state) to tell me that her life has completely turned the corner that she has been praying about. God is so faithful.
Employment Workshop with Sarah White was well attended. God worked both during the workshop and on individuals following that time together to change hearts and confirm callings.
FIREPROOF: two girlfriends went with me to view the movie FIREPROOF in the process of planning to bring it and the study "Fireproof You Marriage" to couples small groups in the spring! More to be announced...
ONE MONTH TO LIVE: What a great series. We have heard many great testimonies about life-change that happened during the study. More than anything I must say that KFA is BLESSED with two great communicators and Senior Pastors!
Conferences:
GROUP LIFE conference at Willow. Saw leaders John Burke (Soul Revolution), Mark Batterson (In a Pit with a Lion..., Wild Goose Chase) and Bill Donahue among many others. Sat with THOUSANDS who share my heart for life-giving relationships through small groups. This year I went looking for confirmation for the plans that have been placed in my heart for our people at KFA.
EXODUS INTERNATIONAL Regional Conference at Green Lake Conference Center. Lisa McAlpine went with to help get an eye for deliverence ministry at KFA. We found ourselves in the midst of individuals who have struggled (past and present) with same-sex attraction as well as spouses, friends and family members who have millions of unanswered questions and tons of compassion. The leaders did a great job and speaker KATHY KOCK, Ph.D. (www.celebratekids.com) was OUTSTANDING. Look for Dr. Kathy in 2009 as we plan to invite her with a message for students and families. Her book "Finding Authentic Hope and Wholeness" (Moody Publishers) will be in The Bread Store next week.
Planning for 2009: I am SO excited to see how the vision shapes up. Pastor Bob and I are working together to focus on Family ministry. The New View has big plans. Small groups are booming. Assimilation and Discipleship are combining for LaunchPoint- the process for Christian growth at KFA.
Now you see why busy was a good title. My list only begins to scratch the surface of what it has looked like. I am so grateful that God has me on this great adventure!
Take care-
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
See you...
This morning I went with my son Ben to his school for 'See You at the Pole', a student-initiated, student organized, and student-led event. That means this is all about students meeting at their school flagpole to pray—for their school, friends teachers, government, and their nation. See You at the Pole™ is not a demonstration, political rally, nor a stand for or against anything. It was really great to be there. Ben began to prepare for the events today by attending a rally last night at IBC where some of the local youth pastors taught the students how to conduct themselves at SYATP, a worship band played and we prayed for the school we would be at. As you know, middle-schoolers can get silly... as we prayed the repeated part of the prayer by almost ever student was "God, let more people show up..." There were about 15 kids in the Lance School prayer group.THIS MORNING when we arrived many of the students from the rally were already there. We joked and joined the semi-circle around the flag pole. Then more people showed up. About thirty students and 3 parents (including me). It was interesting to hear what the on-lookers were saying although some of their comments would not be acceptable to repeat. Mostly though, as the crowd built there was just a great deal of noise.
Here are a few examples of my experience:
- At one point I was aware of a boy standing just behind me peering in. I let go of the hand I was holding and invited him to join us. He set down his backpack and took both hands to complete the circle. After about 2 minutes he leaned over and asked "Are you guys praying or something?" He stayed for about 2 more minutes and excused himself.
- Shortly after that I overheard someone behind me say "Oh man! I was supposed to be doing THAT!" Again I dropped my neighbor's hand and made eye-contact with the girl that had made that statement and she left her friends and joined in.
- I noticed a school employee over my shoulder and invited her into the circle. She took both Ben's hand and mine and stood with us while many students prayed before she excused herself.
- During prayer two girls walked past and one loudly said to the other "I don't know WHAT they're praying for... but I know the are PRAYING!"
What a great morning. I was so impressed by the students who bravely stood up for their Christian beliefs in front of their school body. I saw many gifted leaders and evangelists boldly proclaiming their love for Christ. These kids are the future of the church... and our future looks BRIGHT!
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Being There

The power of multiples has again become evident in my life. I say 'again' because this recurring theme has always shattered my illusions of self-sufficiency. As David states in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work:If one falls down,his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up."
During the past month I have been working to set up the Challenge Groups for KFA's "One Month to Live" campaign. It has been both the greatest joy and biggest challenge I have faced this year. I LOVE that a greater number than I expected have decided to connect through small group life for the six weeks of the campaign. However three weeks ago my assistant Peggy had to to begin a personal leave to care for her mother as she has had some medical issues. Here, two would be better than one.
Earlier this week the pastoral staff and their spouses attended the Innovate08 Conference at Granger Community Church in Granger, IN. We took the two church vans due to the number of people going. Things went well through Chicago but shortly after crossing the Indiana state line the tread on one of the tires of the vans came off and flew into traffic behind us. Just so happened it was the van that Jim and I were in AND it just so happened that it happened 15 minutes from my parent's house. When we discovered that the van's emergency tools to change the tire were not up to the task I chose to call my parents for help. You know that call that begins "DAD... you're not going to believe this..." In a matter of time he and my Mom arrived with the appropriate tools for the job and soon we were on our way.
Just before leaving my office earlier that very same day my cell phone rang. As I answered the phone I noticed that it was one of my friends on the other end of the call. Having just had "a day" herself she called to confess that she was tempted to fall into an old sin pattern. She was reaching out because she knows the power of multiples. She knew that public confession would take all of the power out of the temptation. Later, I called her to follow-up while we were sitting on the side of the highway. She had been able to resist the urges that temporarily had her in their grip.
We are called to be there for each other. "Rescue the perishing; don't hesitate to step in and help. If you say, "Hey, that's none of my business," will that get you off the hook? Someone is watching you closely, you now—Someone not impressed with weak excuses." is what Proverbs 24:11-12 says in The Message Bible. I think that is what bring the Kingdom of Heaven to earth looks like. How about you?
Take care-












